Hi, I’m Vince. I am a Critical Care Registered Nurse and Author. Welcome to my site. On this site you will be provided inspirational, educational, and motivational articles. It is my mission to have this information help you achieve Optimal Health which includes Physical Health, Spiritual Health, and Mental Health.
Writing is something I am very passionate about and it is also very cathartic for me. I would be honored to have you enter your email address to receive my articles straight to your inbox. Your support, love, and feedback are deeply appreciated.
I look forward to mutual sharing in an effort for us all to live a life of Optimal Health. It is my ultimate goal to create change and stimulate self healing.
Just read of your struggle with co-dependency, Vince, and I’ve been there. The minute I’ve entered a relationship, a terrible fear of losing it has always taken over, but I couldn’t define what was happening and why but recognized it as familiar. What you had to say is so important yet few people talk about it. I learned of it late from an educated and intellectual partner whom I had for two years until my dependency became so overwhelming that I left. What I feared most was HIS independence, that he would leave ME as he was 22 years younger. I’ve never been able to replace the intimacy I experienced with him and never could achieve again what I had with him, though I realized it wasn’t healthy. And so did he. I now reside with two male friends, both whom are RN’s, and we have achieved a balanced life together but with no emotional co-dependency. I realize the importance of having my own beautiful life and it can’t be gained by attaching myself at the hip to someone else.
Best to you from South Carolina.
John,
I do not know you personally but am so grateful for your response and I thank you for sharing. I think many of us have had a very similar experience as yours. I have found that I let fear screw up a lot of things for me. I am working with an energy healer currently to be able to release that fear. I love that you’ve found 2 friends to live with. My friends are my rock. I don’t have the stress of emotional codependency as you pointed out but there are also no expectations with true friends. Only love and acceptance. That’s what I love about friends. If only we had that in romantic relationships.
Thanks again for sharing. I look forward to more dialogue with you and wish you the best.
Much love,
Vince
Your are a blessing wrapped in joy in a package filled with LOVE
Walter,
Thank you so much for your beautiful kind words. I am growing and evolving more each day. God (Spirit, Creator, Universe) has been so incredibly faithful and good to me despite my not being so good at times.
I am grateful to have you in my life. You are a blessing to me. You are a great example for others to follow.
Much love,
Vince
Thank you for sharing your gifts with the world.
Clifford,
Thanks for your kindness
Vince
Clifford,
Thanks for the love and support.
Vince
I love you’re positive energy and word of encouragement and wisdom. Continued Blessings to you and your family and friends!
Glenn,
Thanks for your kindness. We all could work at being more positive. I appreciate your feedback.
Vince
Continue to work hard in silence Vince,and make noise with success🙌🏻🙌🏻 blessings
Junior,
Thank you so much for your feedback. I appreciate the support.
Much love,
Vince
I love what you inspire others to accomplish!
Timothy,
I am really grateful for your words, love, and support. I look forward to more mutual sharing. Have an abundant week.
Vince
Thank you for your wonderful energy and spirit. It is a pleasure to be under your care again. Amy Mook
Amy,
I am equally grateful for your wonderful energy and spirit. It was a pleasure talking with you and your husband today. I look forward to continued communication as I send healing light and love your way.
Be well,
Vince
Today I came across your articles and they are awesome keep up the good work
Lyanya,
Thank you so much for your kind words. I truly appreciate your love and support. I look forward to more feedback from you.
Be blessed,
Vince
Loving the blogging.
J. Tebias
J. Tebias,
Really appreciate your feedback brother. Mean a lot to hear from you and to know that my writing is resonating with you. Thanks for your love and support.
Vince
Vince,
I am also a critical care nurse myself and found your recent article an inspiration to possibly do some of my own creative writing. Regardless, I felt inspired to check you out.
Recently read an article “Whose Right Is It Anyway?” from Q Magazine and found your words to echo that of my own thoughts and sentiments. It was a breathe of fresh air to know that I’m not the only one that believes that religion is being used, again, as an excuse to commit atrocities against each other and discrimination against minorities, classes and races. It’s irony that history has a way of repeating itself; however, one’s own beliefs should never equate to intolerance and judgement against another. It is increasingly apparent to me in these times, men (and I use that term to mean both men and women) have a way of creating confusion in society which lead to division rather than unification; ignorance is an opportunity for malicious intentions. It is true; wars and court battles are based on religious fantasy without truly understanding what it is they are truly fighting for. If one is to use religion to justify causation, one should seek understanding first and not pick and choose what makes a seemingly sound argument. You’re right. Jesus did sit with the scribes and Pharisees and spoke of love and forgiveness not bigotry, hate and confusion. Instead of making proclamations of division and hate, we should be preaching on respect, tolerance and understanding. So, whatever happened to “love thy neighbor as thyself”? Apparently that fell to the wayside. Life is too short. Life is too beautiful to share alone. Life is to interesting to not seek understanding from another. It’s our God-given right to life, the right to be loved, the right to freedom and the right to choice.
Gabriel,
What a beautifully written response. I appreciate your perspective and kind words. I look forward to communicating with you more.
Much love,
Vince
Vince,
Thank you. A well written piece deserves a well written and thoughtful response. I very much look forward to corresponding with you more. Perhaps we’ll cross paths.
Respectfully yours,
Gabriel
I love what I’ve read so far. Time will tell.
Thank you so much Winston. Really means a lot to have our feedback.
Be Blessed,
Vince
Vince, I am not sure how I discovered you on Facebook but what a joy to know that you are in the world focusing on helping others improve their well-being. You are an angel on earth.
Walter,
I believe people’s path cross for a distinct reason. As a previous blog title puts it, “Time will Tell.” Thanks for your support and input. I look forward to more feedback from you.
Vince
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Great blog and I love the intersectionality with faith and health. You offer a holistic view of the human condition and your writings are engaging. I look forward to reading more content!
Thank you so much. I too look forward to your feedback as it helps improve my content.
Vince
Interesting blog and meaningful messages. Keep up the good work.
Have really enjoyed your writing Vince. I’m inspired to put pen to paper. Keep it up.
I lived over Aubreys garage as a young teenager and i remember you and vanessa..great family..look forward to follow..i read your blog on quiet time..i call that mindfullness…being in the moment..enjoyed
Words heal. Looking forward to reading your blog… All about Optimal Health.
I’ll be following
Thank you Barry. Look forward to your feedback and comments as I believe we all learn from each other.
Vince
Thank you Maurice. I appreciate your feedback and support.
Vince
Great blog.
Look forward to reading more
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Looking forward to reading more. Well done.
Hope this does it correctly. You know I am challenged in this field so be patient
Thanks Vince. Keep that good work.You are an awesome guy. God bless you man.
Francisco,
Thanks for your kind words
Thanks Vince for sharing your link… I look forward to reading your blog
Thanks Derrick,
Make sure to check out the latest blog, “Knowing Thyself” by clicking on the icon on the right. Really appreciate your feedback.
Hi Vince, I Can’t wait to read your Blog! I Love reading inspirational uplifting stories. Looking forward to reading your blog! !!
Thanks Dianna,
Make sure to check out the blog on the right hand side entitled “Knowing Thyself”. Appreciate your support
Looking forward to some enlightenment! Keep up the good work
Such an inspiration. I would love to follow your blogs on a weekly basis. Thank you!!!
Oh Sheila, thank you so much for your kind words. Make sure to sign up for my weekly blogs in your email. Read the “Knowing Thyself” blog. Then click in the leave a reply box. Once you click in the leave a reply box, another box with pop up below that giving you the option to subscribe to my email list and get the blogs straight to your email every week. Thank you so much for your support.
Peace and blessings
Looking forward to reading more! You always had such a positive spirit every time I was around you!
Micaela,
Thank you so much for your kind words. Be sure to sign up for my weekly blogs to your email. Read the “Knowing Thyself” blog, then click in the leave a reply box. You’ll then be prompted to sign up for my email list. Thanks again for all your support. It means a lot.
Fantastic…..can’t wait to hear and read about your experiences
Van,
Thanks so much for your response. I look forward to more of your feedback. Feedback from the readers is essential for my growth.
Awesome! Can’t wait to read more☺️☺️
Thank you LaToya. Don’t forget to click on the blog link and read my weekly blogs. You will also have the opportunity to sign up to receive the weekly blogs by email which I hope you will do. Look forward to sharing more with you.
Sounds great can’t wait to read more
Thank you Donna. Make sure to click on the blog icon and check out the blogs. There is also an opportunity to leave a reply at the end of each blog. The little blog icon is located at the top of the page. Look forward to hearing more from you and appreciate your input.
Awesome! Can’t wait to read more !
Insanely Passionate Writer, get to writing. I’m ready to read. I too seek optimal health which for me means serious un-duping! Let’s go!
Thanks for the feedback. I will post weekly blogs on Sundays and will always be open to your feedback. Are there any particular subjects you are interested in learning more about?
Love you my precious friend.
Well said
Dear Anonymous,
Thank you so much. I hope you will continue to follow my website and blog on a weekly basis.